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My advice would be to walk away

I hate to say it but no matter how much support you give her; addiction is bigger than anything you have to offer

If you leave and she sorts herself out that’s great; but in reality you will spend years being her financial and emotional punchbag until you are drained and your relationship implodes

Live your life

Don’t feel guilty the addiction was there before you and it will unfortunately be there for life

The lies

The disappearing

It’s all so text book and so distressing

The rant is what we all have done looking for answers In The chaos searching for the truth and that my friend you will never find out no matter how much you cry beg or dig

You will just drive yourself mad

You don’t have anything to prove but you definitely deserve to be happy and live a calm and honest life xx

[hodgy7]

Thank you for your reply. What you say does make alot of sense. I am about at the end of my tether with her. And so are her parents she is just selfish and doesn’t seem to care about anyones feelings. She stays at her parents house and they are considering kicking her out but her mother knows she will just end up in the gutter or in a drug den.

The only “friends” she has are addicts and I don’t think she can break away from that life.

I suppose it’s nothing other people here haven’t been through.

Tonight. She dissapered for 3 hours. I rang her and she text saying her phone won’t let her answer. I mean if you are going to lie at least make it believable ????. She came back and went straight back to sleep so she has been up 3 hours all day today. But still won’t admit she has used any drugs.

I am about ready to walk away. I will be devastated but I guess sometimes you just have to let go.

Thanks

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