[cmm89]

Hi, I’m using this as a way to speak to someone. My partner of 3 years basically is addicted to Weed. He also likes to have a drink. Wouldn’t say alcoholic but maybe border line as drinks every weekend. He also use to have a cocaine problem which his family years before me got him to have counselling for. At the beginning he was quite honest he did occasional coke and weed. It’s not until we moved in together that I realised that he had a bigger problem. He does weed daily. And lies to me all the time about it. It causes us number of rows to him saying I’m spying on him. I’ve rang places got him to speak to people and nothing has came of it. His behaviour towards me when his angry is horrible and has been abusive mentally and physically. I’ve tried to take control of money to prevent him being able to buy it. But he still finds ways. We really had spoke about having a family which I want but would never do in this situation. I’ve stuck by him while people have been ill and his blamed drugs as a way of coping. His also had depression. But I feel I can’t tell anyone what goes on behind closed doors. No one knows he does this part from me. It keeps building up and I don’t no what to do. When I ask him to leave he refuses

[icarus-trust]

Thank you for sharing your story. It must be difficult to deal with and lonely for you too, not being able to talk with others about what’s going on.

If you would like some help for yourself, and to talk with people who would understand what you are dealing with please contact us at Icarus Trust.

We are a charity that provides support for people like you who are living with a partner with addictive behaviours. We have trained people who would listen to you and may be able to help you see how to move on.

You can contact The Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org

I hope that this helps.

good luck.

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