I know how you feel my partner has sought help after 4 years and I’m trying to be supportive as I know it’s a long journey. Problem is I am a bit resentful about the stress he has put me through. Friends have been good but they don’t really understand. The only advise I can give is try to do things for yourself, and take a break from it all. You are not alone.
Unfortunately I don’t get time I have young children , I work and have all house daily tasks as he is unable.i don’t know how to support him either I thought I was being supportive by letting him do his own thing and keep everything together so he doesn’t have any thing to do . But that doesn’t seem good enough. I found out today that one of family member have been buying him drink. I am so angry with them and can’t even face seeing them as feel I will blow my top with them. I know it’s his choice to drink it but why why would anyone buy it for them!!! I just don’t know what to do. I can’t see a way forward at the mo