HI,
Thanks for posting. I work for a charity called the Icarus Trust that you might find helpful to contact.
We provide support for people living with the impact of a partner’s addiction. We have trained and experienced people you could talk with who would try to help you to answer some of your questions.
You can contact The Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best.