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I’m new to this. Im just feeling so alone at the minute with being with this person.  Only recently he has went to the addictions services to get him but I just can’t seem to trust a single thing that comes out of his mouth.

He also continues to put himself in environments where there is drugs and gambling going on but says I need to learn to trust him or this no point to our relationship anymore.  But I can’t really see how I can trust again.  Even when I said I didn’t want him going to the likes of the bar as his last binge of alsorts was only acouple of weeks ago he gets annoyed and says he trusts himself to go and not do anything and that’s all that matters.

I just constantly feel a mixture of emotions of anxiety, dread, worried about past patterns especially when I notice them in the present and just gutted at his attitude towards me when I do say I have an issue.  He also has a habit of seeking attention from other women usually texting, in particular his ex when he’s on drugs or is wanting a distraction or lately IV noticed it’s when he wants money.
<p style=”text-align: center;”>Does it ever get better?  Can trust ever be built and if so how. What things could be done to build it.</p>

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