Hi,
I’m sorry that you have been made to feel so bad when you were trying to help your girlfriend. The Icarus trust is a charity that supports the friends and families of addicts. If you would like to talk with one of our experienced trained volunteers, who would understand what you are going through, please contact us.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck.