[delia]

Hi

I brought up my 2 children alone for most of their lives and also had my fair share of loosers

As a single parent you need a partner who brings positive things to you and your children’s lives. Someone who is able to support you and help provide for you not the other way round.

I reached a point when I decided I was better off on my own as all the good men have been taken up. When surprise surprise I met the man of dreams. He is an amazing provider, he’s great with my kids. Don’t get me wrong he does have some minor faults LOL but nothing that is too difficult to tolerate.

Please don’t give up you deserve to be loved and happy but you really must get out of this harmful relationship.

I’m so glad you mentioned that you attract men who need fixing I can really relate to that.

Sit down and right a list of qualities you need in a man and don’t settle for anything less.

Never rush in to anything, if they are worth it they will wait till you are sure it’s right.

Wishing you tones of luck for finding Mr Right

[struggling1986]

Thank you for replying.

Everyone always says Mr Right will turn up when you least expect it, just seems like that isnt going to be the case for me.

I hate being single, love being in a relationship. But I think you are right that I need to take some time just for me. I don’t think I value myself enough which is why I end up with and make excuses for others that treat me badly.

[delia]

Most of my adult life i have had issues with feeding like I will never find anyone decent.

Just like you I never gave myself credit for being a hard working good Mum until the point of giving up when I decided not to ever let anyone hurt me again and the change in my outlook just seemed to attract a decent guy who really appreciates all my good qualities.

I really hope the same happens for you.

I will look forward to hearing when your luck changes

Take lots of care

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