[babs45]

Hi BT1978 – thanks for replying

I have not found any or actually seen him do it for a long time but I think he is just really careful now due to the arguments. He has promised to stop so many times and broken that promise I’m just expecting it now. I’m tired of it all. Just want to be on my own without all the doubt and mistrust. It’s not just the cocaine there’s other trust issues from a few years ago when he cheated. But how do you divorce someone you still love even though you know the relationship is no good anymore. This forum is great. So good to learn from others going through the same. I can only hope I’m as strong as some of the people on here

[babs45]

Hi. I just read your post and didn’t want to just skip on. It sounds like you are in a bad place with your partner. I hope he wakes up and realises especially with a baby on the way. That’s what made me comment. It must be incredibly hard to even consider leaving him when pregnant but imagine the stress of him being like he is now once the baby comes? Maybe start planning for a future without him or get some further advice from the Icarus Trust I think it’s called. I hope things get better for you and that this forum has helped you as much as it has me. Just knowing other people are going through the same is both sad but also makes me feel less alone and just a little bit stronger every day. Take care of yourself and the baby x

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