In hindsight it started earlier – although I am sure it has intensified in recent months. I have suggested various options for next academic year. In a perfect world I’d bring her home and help her be healthy – but, I think we are were we are at the moment – she is very resistant to coming back and is determined to stay in London – so I think its probably best to respect that at the moment, although believe me, I’d kidnap her tomorrow if I could!