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Oh no Fiona……..Seems this week has been nothing but bad news…..My son got arrested again last night…..Drunk and probably on something…I hope they remand him if im honest..he should be court next week too…..Never ending BS, that drains the life out of me..All those promises of wanting to get better…all BS..His ex has wiped her hands so he wont have anywhere to go, and he definately isnt staying with us….IM DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What I will say is let him get on with it…whatever you do it will never be enough….feel your pain Hunni, and hope you make a decision that’s right for you xxxx
Hey grannie….I have removed myself from any contact with my son for the foreseeable future….we have had 4years of hell…he has just spent 7weeks in prison and is back in court next week…I am ashamed,disgusted with him, and at times hate him..how sad is that? I constantly think I will outlive him…heart breaking!
Feel for you….Addiction is an evil thing that grips the whole family and those who love the addict…..Isnt it sad at what lengths they stoop for their choice of drug….stay strong hunni and know you are not alone x
Hey fifi, as hard and sad as it sounds I’m so glad that prison has bought your beloved son back to you…had a bad day today….worrying about what is in store when he gets out…I know it’s down to him, and for the time being he is really positive, but as you know, that can change anytime….I just want to say stay strong, you ladies have been my life line…in the small hours when I wake in sheer panic, I know that you ladies have given me my sanity back…..I hope you hear from your son soon Sue, and fi I hope your son continues getting well, and gets some help inside….luv n hugs to you both and all the other wonderful parents, brothers, sisters on here who continue to show love, empathy, and support xxxx
Hi JMH, your doing the right thing, as concerned mum says, its hard but by not enabling them, and doing the right thing for your child has to be the only answer… It took me a while to see what my son was doing….and that broke my heart…but I am steadfast in the knowledge that as a family we are doing the right thing….
Hey Fi, how are you hunni and how is your son??? Sending love and hugs xx
Hi Ladies, just checked in to see how we are all doing….Its awful watching our children live in the hell of addiction…Ladies, you are doing what is best for your kids, and the rest of the family..but its painful…I pray for our kids each night, and if there was a miracle out there I would gladly pay for it….It has to be down to them, and that is the hardest thing, because we have to wait……Ive got one week left till my son is back home, and im getting those feelings in the pit of my stomach….I REALLY HOPE there is light at the end of the tunnel for us all …cyber hugs xxxx
It is like an epedemic, and no matter how we raise our children, the temptation is there…My guess is he and his mates do it together…The problem is that they never get that initial high they got when they first took it..so end up taking more and more to try and emulate that feeling….and this puts a real strain on their health. I think you have to be brutally honest with your son and try and sit down with him. My son has been doing drugs for 4 years..he has lied, stolen and got into trouble with the police…and it all started with Weed….He has done cocaine, his last choice of use was Mcat, and that on top of alcohol is a recipe for a down hill spiral….The biggest lesson I have learned through this awful journey is to NOT ENABLE them..that means no helping out with rent, money for petrol, bailing them out of loans they may have……its heart breaking. All the signs were there, but initially I chose to ignore them, cause like you I never thought he would touch drugs….Be strong hunni, there are plenty of parents on here with very valuable advice, or just to listen and support…..Never give up on your child, but with the same token, dont enable them to continue their life style…..hugs hunni xxx
Hi Sue….never a truer word said hunny….Its so hard for all us loved ones, watching them makes such desperate decisions, that not only impact on their lives but ours too…I really hope you hear something soon…My son gets out next Friday…and I have written the most truthful letter ever..warts and all…I thought he would be mad,not ring, but ive just got off the phone from him, and he says everything I put was true…He isnt angry with me, just sad that he put us all through the misery..Im not sure what will happen once he is back to the real world, but at the moment he is still positive and says he will continue with the counselling, and go back to see if he can get antibuse….Im praying for all our children…there has to be a light at the end of our tunnel some time soon…..hugs to you Sue, and all the other parents who live this hell xxxx
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25 Jun 2014…………..you really are a sad pathetic individual……ADMIN…PLEASE REMOVE