[cathy12345]

Thank you for your kind words Jennifer68 , I hope you do too x

[cathy12345]

DNAnon and Danman83 thank you both for responding .

Thankfully I have just started with a group locally that may help me get through this , guess I’m just really struggling today .

It was helpful to put it into words here ,

Thank you

[cathy12345]

Hi thanks for responding

Damage is K Bladder ( very likely to lose it )

He lives in house share , no job now and no gf no kids

10 yr plus drug habit / mostly so called party drugs

Used to be active , adventurous , well travelled etc

Wants to get clean / back to work , back in control but failing to commit after connecting with help

I am struggling with the yo-yo of it all .

Not taking anything else as far as I know

[cathy12345]

And yes it’s every day several times a day . I think he’s done 2 days without but he is then in distress so go right back to it

[cathy12345]

Hi had to re register as forgot to save password .

He is 34 adamant he wants to stop but won’t listen to professionals .

Others who have had less physical damage tell him he can just stop , sadly his damage means he needs medical help to stop as the pain is too great so he keeps lapsing .

And all the time the damage increases , it’s heartbreaking at times but I will support him of course , I am seriously struggling emotionally though.

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