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Dot I think that message was for me. Im not an addict I’d never touch the stuff and the reason I don’t see him as a danger is because he barely sees his children even living on our front garden in a caravan and he never sees them without me being around.
It’s so nice to hear about a positive outcome. My on/off partner has been doing crack for at some point this month 18 months. I found out in October and told him to leave. My whole world fell apart it still is that way. I’ve asked him to get help and he says he wants to but he doesn’t. He’s done nothing to get help. On our baby’s 1st birthday we was raided he had a small amount of something and now the social services, council and what feels like the whole world knows. He doesn’t seem to care. I feel like he’s doing all of this and I’m the one being punished for it. I know some of you may think I’m being selfish by saying that but I do. I terrified of losing my kids and home, terrified that he may end up dead if he carries on but he doesn’t want to listen he just says I’m bitching all the time. When I’m trying to make him see that this is no life. He’s now in my garden in a caravan which the council have said it has to go. I just don’t know what to do. The social services have said they may force myself and the children to cut him off. I mean can they do that ? Can they control your life ?
To be honest no i don’t think you are overreacting. At the end of the day he used to be an addict and that’s probably how it started just using casually. He could easily relapse. I hope he understands where your coming from your only concerned becauseyou love him and don’t want that life for him.
I know exactly how your feeling as I am feeling the same thing. My, i will say ex I don’t class him as my boyfriend now but to be honest i don’t know what we are anymore of almost 20 years took on a crack habit 17 months ago and I have never felt so hurt,angry and betrayed in all my life. I don’t know what to do on one hand I want to try and help him get off it on the other i want to wash my hands of him. Want complicates things for us is we have children and now other people are involved and I feel suffocated by it all. Like I’m being punished.