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Ye I fully understand why u paid. Just don’t let him keep taking advantage. I had that mentality I’d just not drink for x a mount of months. It doesn’t work. And then after a year when he drinks he could relapse on coke.
So I’ve had to quit alcohol aswell.
Will he join CA? I totally get how u feel. I told my mum everything and it broke her.
Tell him listen to a few addiction recovery stories on you tube and podcast. They help me alot. Plus meetings are on zoom now aswell.
Hiya debzie, I hope your OK. I’m 4 month clean from cocaine now. After 12 years of using. It’s a horrible drug, and I’m afraid it’s everywhere. I finally joined cocaine anonymous and I’ve been clean ever since. It effects everyone. I’ve been on meetings where there are doctors on who have a cocaine addiction. It’s literally everywhere these days.
But anyway, if you want your son to stop, you can not force him. Shouting ect.. Will get you nowere.
He needs to want to quit for himself. Then go from there. If he doesn’t he may need to hit his rock bottom. I had a few rock bottoms.
I just had enough of coke and wanted to stop. I tried everything.
Don’t keep paying his debts anymore. He will just get more and more and expect you to do so.
He needs to.. If he wants to quit that is.. To delete dealers nums, friends who use as well. And not drink alcohol as this is a main trigger to use. But the main thing as 1st is.. He needs to want to quit for himself.
Does he want to?
Feel free to ask me anything
Anyway, hope u are OK. I’m 4 week clean from cocaine this Monday.
It’s really Hard for partners of an addict when they love them loads, and you seem to understand its a disease and know a bit about it.
Does he really want to quit? He needs to want to for himself. Me personally if he is not putting in the effort to quit all drugs even alcohol, he’s needs to show u he has deleted dealers nums, deleted Facebook and other social media as u can message dealers on there.
Maybe join cocaine anonymous that’s what I have done and I’ve never been so happier in my life.
He needs to prove to you that he really wants to stop.
If not, you need to go your own way, unless u want to put up with it. That’s my honest opinion. Taking your car off him won’t do much, and addicts just lie all the time, anything to get there drugs we will do. Feel free to ask me anything
Are you from America? Adderall and kava are really known over there, not really heard people have that stuff in UK.
I just search them in you tube, guided meditation, or just relaxing meditation music. Or chakra ones, or law of attraction. It really does help and gets u ready for the day.
Some people thinks it’s a load of bullish.. T but it’s not when u get into it
I just search them in you tube, guided meditation, or just relaxing meditation music. Or chakra ones, or law of attraction. It really does help and gets u ready for the day.
Some people thinks it’s a load of bullish.. T but it’s not when u get into it
Some people are just like that I guess. My dad worked as a prison guard at a well know prison for like 30 years. And he never told me more than about 2 prison stories. He rarely speaks and just keeps things to himself. He’s never done out. Some people are like this.
It is getting easier, and I’m feeling better for doing it.
Ye were good I just need to make amends to her and apologise. I tried doing it today and she said.. Take that fukin smile off your face and do it when u are serious lol. I was just nervous, I wasn’t having a laugh like she thinks.
Try and take up some meditation or yoga that works for me. I’m up near Manchester ????
Thanks for that Brooke, hope your OK. It must not be nice finding all that out, and you do deserve better. My advice is you let him get on with his recovery, and you move on and be happy, and the next guy you meet ask if he does coke ???????? look after yourself ????