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Ye I know what mean he’s up to. Just focus on your self and have some goals. I have a lot of regrets of not going college and getting a trade. I have a good job now like. But apart of me wishes I could turn back time and focus on my education and be clean. But everything happens for a reason.
Going on ain’t I haha. But just focus on your self and do well on that course and build a good foundation for yourself for the future.
Thanks for that. It cheers me up seeing these comments. I’m 3 month clean this Friday. I’ve only ever done 3 month clean once before in 11 year on this crap. So major achievement if i get passed this ????????
Ye I know what mean he’s up to. Just focus on your self and have some goals. I have a lot of regrets of not going college and getting a trade. I have a good job now like. But apart of me wishes I could turn back time and focus on my education and be clean. But everything happens for a reason.
Going on ain’t I haha. But just focus on your self and do well on that course and build a good foundation for yourself for the future.
Thanks for that. It cheers me up seeing these comments. I’m 3 month clean this Friday. I’ve only ever done 3 month clean once before in 11 year on this crap. So major achievement if i get passed this ????????
Ahhh leave him to it. I’m good thanks, 12 weeks clean now. Was struggling last night but I’m good now.
Thats good. At least it will keep you busy. I hope it goes well for you ????
That’s great to here!! I’m happy for him! And you! Less stress for you now then and no more worrying.
That’s so good to hear some one happy in recovery and doing well. It really does work this 12 step programme.
Thanks you so much for your kind words. Tell your son I said well done, and keep passing the knowledge on what he’s learned.
Good to hear from you ❤️
Ye u did really well getting that much clean time mate. ????????
How are you all doing?
There is more than that tho mate. You have to work the 12 steps as well.
Hiya evie, sorry I’ve only just seen this. Are you still there??
Listen its nothing to do with you, stop beating yourself up about this, you will make yourself ill. If anything you are too good for him.
I always said to my gf if I get cravings I’d tell her. Sometimes I did. A lot I never. Your addictive brain does not want to own up to it really. I guess it depends how strong you are.
If he’s been using longer than 6 month, he’s addicted. You don’t have to use every day to be addicted.mine was every few week. Or once a week. If you always come back to it. Your addicted, or every payday. It’s up to u what you want to do. At the end of the day, you can mither him as much as you want. An addict will get what he wants if he wants it.
Having the 12 steps and a sponsor, I have good tools to help me. I was in a bad way last night and felt like using. I can’t really say on here why. But I phoned my sponsor and had a good chat and I felt OK after. But it was hard for me last night and I know I’ve got a long way to go. And summer just around the corner. I’m not looking forward to it
So sorry for this late reply, I have only just seen it.
I know he was, that was clearly all the signs. I hope your OK.
If he tried so hard not to have it then got it, he clearly is addicted to coke. He needs to delete everyone to do with coke really. I can just text my mate and ask have u got that dealers num? So I delete anyone who knows dealers lol. Or I tell them do not give me that num.
He’s talking like an addict. I can see it a mile off. I’m the same. He’s buying time to use. He’s gonna quit coke but still have a drink to see if it is that?? Everyone knows soon as you have a drink your getting coke, plus if he is using just coke with out alcohol. That’s worse. He might able go without a week or 2 having a drink without coke and that’s it. Soon as you have a drink and u have 1 thought of coke, you are literally powerless to overcome these cravings.
How’s he doing now? Are you OK?
That’s what addiction does to you. You can have 3 heart attacks before you see sence. The addiction seems to win most of the time.
My partner is exactly the same with what you just said. She never wants us to split up and she loves me. But I am pushing her to.
That’s what addiction does to you. You can have 3 heart attacks before you see sence. The addiction seems to win most of the time.
My partner is exactly the same with what you just said. She never wants us to split up and she loves me. But I am pushing her to.
I mean when you hit your rock bottom there is only 1 way after that and that’s up.
Some people have to have serious health issues, or OD before they realise. What are you going to do if he is not gonna change?
Thank you for that.
Believe me the dealer will give it away if he knows you are good for paying it back. If you have no money on the day, how is the dealer gonna make money?. He just says take 2 or 3. And owe me.
Most do it.
I just guess when he hits his rock bottom and he has really had enough then he will.
No they won’t care when they are on it. But the minute it’s all gone, guilt and resentment, and depression kicks In. Then he will be regretting what he has done asking for forgiveness ect..
Have u phoned him?
Thank you for that.
Believe me the dealer will give it away if he knows you are good for paying it back. If you have no money on the day, how is the dealer gonna make money?. He just says take 2 or 3. And owe me.
Most do it.
I just guess when he hits his rock bottom and he has really had enough then he will.
No they won’t care when they are on it. But the minute it’s all gone, guilt and resentment, and depression kicks In. Then he will be regretting what he has done asking for forgiveness ect..
Have u phoned him?