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Ye that’s true. My mate asked me go out in a few week for a drink. I told him no. Feels crap. But Ill feel better in the long run.
Thanks kel
I’m glad ive come back on here. It helped me out a lot last time.
Hahaha thanks. I hope so.
Thanks cath and your right. I bought a guitar 3 month ago and I’m loving learning it, I practice everyday for an hour, except the day after I have used and then when I play 2 days later. I feel like I’m not as good. And it’s because I was obviously using. So I’ve thought deeply about what’s more important. As this is a long term goal of mine to be good at it lol
Plus Ive got it in my head do I want to miss out on not having a drink the occasional weekend or go out. But I’ve started to think I need to give up everything to fix it. It’s just sticking to it
I know it’s not good when it effects your kids. I lost my best mate from childhood to heroin last year. I stopped hanging around with him when he started on that. He was only 36.
A good thing that helps me is reading books on people who have over come addiction. There is a great one by Tim Ryan I think he’s called and the book is called.. From dope to hope. He was on heroin really bad and lost his 17 year old son to it. But tell your husband have a look into reading these type of books, that’s if he wants to. But they help me and put things into perspective.
I guess you don’t want to leave him.so just make sure he’s doing everything to stop. Has he tried meetings?
Am good thanks, just still keep messing up every few week. But I’m going to do my best again. How you and your bf doing?
I guess you have one of 2 choices to make, stay with him and support him and give him a time limit maybe of no relapses.
Or just leave and think of you and your kids. I guess it narrows down to how much he wants to quit and is he even going to try. If not I’d get out now.
I’ve got a coke problem but I dont blow much money on it and it’s only once every few week. And all are bills are paid and kids come 1st. But with heroin it just totally takes over you and you would Rob off your own kids for that stuff.
But he really needs to want to quit himself. Not even have a phone. Come of social media. I’ve deleted all mine. Avoid every thing to do with the drug and take up new hobbies.
Yep, 100% if the weather is great it makes me want a drink, and to use. It changes your mood so quick. Plus listening to music as well lol
Thanks mate. I’m getting back to doing what I usually did.
Thanks
He has got to do it for himself. I hate it when I’ve planned something then I’m in bed all day recovering. You can only do so much. I’m back on a few apps, and talking to people in my situation and going through my triggers again and staying away from them.
Some people have coke off a house key. And for example… If I see a key around the house it could trigger me into getting coke as its associated with it. It’s that easy. And it’s every were in the UK now. If I could give anyone advice. It’s never to even try the stuff.
Ye thanks Mel. How have u been? Back to basics again for me. I keep on messing up every 2 to 3 weeks. Just had enough of it.
He needs to get rid of everyone to do with crack now. Delete all his nums
Don’t worry about telling me. This is what this site is about and it does help. No point in hiding. I told my mum everything. And really upset her. Does he want to quit