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Hope your ok kel, but 1st of.. dont even think about taking your life for your husbands actions, especially when you have children. Would you really want them be left with him? Try and be strong i know its hard. But we all know kids come 1st.
Plus none of this is your fault! Cocaine makes you make so many excuses just to get coke. Its called emotional relapse. Its just an excuse to go get coke. Depending on the situation.
So stop blaming youself. We make our own decisions in life. You didnt force him to do it.
He wont change until he is ready to. I know you dont want to hear this. But you are best off out of there kel, and you really need to stop listening to his bullshit, rise above it, show him you are not bothered. Let your hair down and go out with a friend and try and be happy. I know its easier said then done but your just gonna make yourself worse.
Im struggling with coke as well. But mine is just a weekend thing or every few week. I hate the stuff. And i am trying so much to stop. I even downloaded a yoga app last night so im going to try that this week.
There is so much you can do to stop or control it. He just needs to want to.
They have a point . But love makes you do crazy things. My gf had stood by me. Is he trying to stop at all? And whats he doing to stop?
Hiya.. you are right.. if your son does not want the help, im afraid you are flogging a dead horse.. is he working?
My mum was the same as me so i know what you are going through, and i worry if my kids do the same. I guess you just have to keep making him aware, and be there for him. But hes young and still has his future ahead of him and can change it now still.
My sons distant friends all cocaine and weed and ket all on snapchat and insta now! This young generation now can get it so easy. If he wants to stop he needs to cut all his using friends off and get some new hobbies.
Ye that message doesnt make at sence at all. Tbh id rather stay with you and let you help me as well. Im constantly mithering my gf. Take my phone off me fri and sat and other things. But she forgets. I have bought a safe and she has a key and she locks my car keys and phone away at the weekend. I still manage sometimes to get it though. But she dont help when she says just go shop for me. Knowing id prob go get that. But youve done good helping him. He needs a good support around him. And you can tell he wants to stop. His comment on the text could be a bit of reverse phycology… he doesnt want to be mean but he has to be to make you stay away while he sorts himself. But thats just a guess.
Have u spoke to him since then?
What do you want out of all this if you dont mind me asking? U have said you dont want to see him on the streets. But you cant keep putting up with this. Me personally id say.. you go to rehab or you get out and you have a month to decide.. but thats just my opinion. It cant be good for your health
Hiya.. hope your ok.. his reply.. pretty good… sounds a bit weird. Im like your bf and you sound really nice and helped him.
Plus the coke does make u feel so low and he could be thinking.. he doesnt want to hurt you any more. But i could be wrong. Plus he has to want to quit himself and cut all people off to do with coke.
Maybe have a sit down with him and talk and see what he wants. Or if he doesnt and thats it.. and i dont mean to be funny, but you could of had a lucky escape..
Ye its not good at all that. U do deserve better.
Im ok thanks. But i left my gf in oct. And ive been litrally having once a week or every 2 week.. but im back with her now. And ive not had it for 2 week, plus i have an appointment with the drug help place were i live this month. Ive just had enough of it now. Being single and going out isnt good tbh. Coke is everywere now, even my 16 year old sons mates sell it on snap chat with prices and pics. Its crazy..
There is also a pod cast. Called .. the addiction podcast.. point of no return…
And its american and they are associated with a rehab called.. narcanon i think. And there are so many ex addicts talking about how this rehab is great and works.
They do it different to other rehabs. They have a method of saunas which sweats out all the toxins. Give u vitamins and councilling. Have a look into that..hope your ok. Try not to worry to much as it will make you ill
this was from a year ago! Haha.. how are you doing anyway? Have you quit now?
Thanks mate 🙂 tbh this site helped me alot to stay off it. And then it shut down and i just thought i was ok. When i clearly wasnt.
Good on him as well. Least you stuck by him and he sorted himself.
Im decorating again. Ive got loads to do this weekend. So hopefully this will keep me busy x
Hiya mate! Same here… long story really.. but left my gf in october.. and i have been using every weekend going out. Im gutted really. Not had it for 2 week now. And i went to the drug help place and ive got an appointment on 25th.. i really do want knock this on the head. But i just got stuck in a rut. Im back with her now. Soo all is good. Fingers crossed lol. How u been? You still with your bf?
Hope your ok.. but no matter what.. your child comes 1st.. everytime!. There is only one person that will get hurt in this.. and thats your child. If you end up on it again. Your child will suffer. No matter how hard it is. I think you need to move on. And keep going. Your doing great. But dont go back. Just keep thinking of your child. And talk about you 2 when he is better. Thats my opinion and i know how hard it is when you are in love. But kids always come 1st. And i would totally understand if my gf did it to me.
Do you know what he is using rob? I think thats all we do as parents, is worry and worry about our children. We as parents just want the best for them and just try and control them so they dont make the same mistakes like we did.
But at the end of the day we cant. They have there own life and own mistakes to learn. My 16 year old hasnt used yet but some of his friends sell drugs on snapchat and facebook! Its crazy now.
So i worry alot as well but i cannot stop what he does when i am not there.
Does he want to go any meetings?
Ye brown is heroin.. do you have kids together? If not id get out while u can. And he needs to get help asap, thats if he wants it. Or give him one last chance and say he gets help or he moves out.