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Hiya karen hope your ok… im in the same situation as your husband. But i am doing my best to quit coke. I lapse once a month roughly give or take. I did 2 month at the start of the year and lapsed. Which i was gutted about. I cant stand the stuff. I wish i never even tried it. My spending on it was no were near what your husband spends but i am still an addict.
Do you not think he might of been taking it longer than just before xmas??
Going back to the cheating its very hard to get over and you probably never will. My gf cheated on me with a friend. It was crafty how it happend. But being stupid, i went and got her back. It made our lifes hell for years. But me personally as its been 7 years now. You do get over it or should i say.. it goes away and you dont think about it. Time is a great healer, and i am not defending your husband here.. im saying it from my point of view when i was cheated on. But everyone is different.
But if like you say you want to stay with and he is a good man and he is staying clean. Just ride the storm for abit. It is hard. Plus cocaine does that to a lot of people, i hear it alot on here and other places.. people get an escort. He wouldnt dream of doing it clean. Its just a horrible drug. Just be firm with him regarding coke, and make sure he doesnt drink alcohol or associate with anyone with coke. Ive took up reading to distract me and another 4 books have come through my door today to keep me occupied. Lol.
Feel free to ask me anything and good luck.
She obviosuly has a few problems. But she wont stop it until she admits she has a drink and coke problem. Does she want to quit both or not.?
Gods honest truth this relationship does not sound its working 1 bit. If you have trackers on each other or just him theres no trust. Which i can understand.
And if my gf told me shes loves her ex still and is back with him… id prob go on a bender as well lol and probably try and get you back. Im just being honest here. But you also dont deserve the shit you get from him. Me personally id leave and start a fresh if i was you. It sounds like it will never end .
I dont know the answer to that.. i dont know the guy. Im not gonna lie it could make u cheat.. but so does alcohol.
Are u still with him? Does he stay out at night and come back the next day?
Well for a start if she needs money or a bill paying. Dont give her the money.. just buy some food or pay her bill personally.see what she does then.
And she prob will look like shes on drugs with having leukemia. Just dont give her the cash. And buy what she needs
Hey casey im in same position as you. But sort of have it under control. Are you ok?
I guess rani.. it depends on the person and how bad you are an addict. Im lapsing roughly once a month. I only use on the friday once a month. But after 1 bag i tend to get 2 more maybe 1. . Even tho im having it once a month im an addict.
Anyways.. i wouldnt dream of doing what your hubby does..selling sentimental things. But then again.. how much is he using? If its everyday and hes running out of money.. he is going to sell things. It doesnt matter who you are, what your morals are.. coke will make you do stupid shit. And its all regrets the next day . When i have done stupid things on it.. its not me and i wouldnt dream of doing it soba. I just wish i never took the stuff.
But im back reading some new books now keeping me occupied.
What you mean rani?
Good on you mate. Your on the right path now. Just be aware what triggers the coke cravings and try and avoid them, and think of your little girl.
Ive downloader that wickr but were do i go from there??
Hi mat im same as you. Im lapsing every 4 week. I hate the stuff… ive learned quite abit how to.cope with it and ways to stop. But like you said its everywere. You seem to have your head screwed on and i can relate to you. Do.you want to swap nums to support each other?
Ive looked it up… says you can trip off it lol
Some have died from it. Were can you buy?? Some people have said it works.
Wow lol… so whats your situation now pal
I take it your making money out of this??
Dont ever let him back in your life. He was obviously making you really ill. Im really happy for you. You made the right decision. Good luck for the future