[danman83]

Hey mate ive been like you for years. But im doing my best to stop. Ive lasped twice this year. I cant stand the stuff. Download an app called pocket rehab.. its were addicts and ex talk and help each other out?

What are you doing to stop?

How much and when do you use?

[danman83]

Whats your story?

[danman83]

He doesnt want to go now.. im gutted lol but its because my 8 year old layla, has her friends staying over so the house is full of girls, so he doesnt want to come with me lol.

That what your son has said, is sort of a good thing. Because he does want to see you, and he is embarassed. Which i was when my mum found out.

May be.. this is just an opinion.. tell him you wont bring it up and not to be embarassed and if he needs help you will be there.

Im only saying this as i have kids and i couldnt bare not seeing them, and i know your the same, but he wont incase you mention the coke. But its best off leaving that maybe for now, just so you can see and speak to him..

Thats my opinion.. its entirely up to you what you do. Have a good weekend mate

[danman83]

Ive only just seen your messsge from 4th april? About bolton

Sorry..

So were r u from in bolton?

[danman83]

You sound the opposite of her! Lol you seem great what you are doing. I get the impression from her because im a man.. i dont need support and a arm around me saying you can do this dan.

She doesnt get why after 3 4 week i get coke, why cant i just have a normal drink like every one else.

Shes just sees things from her view. Shes very demanding all the time. If she wants me do something, ive got to go and do it now.lol

[danman83]

You would think with him having no one he would make it work with you and settle down.

Im going to be honest.. but hes taking the piss out of you. I take it.. its your house and your worried him being homeless?

Do you have kids together?

I seriously would say you have one more chance or thats it. Its your life tho. But it sounds like hes using you or taking advantage of you.. what time will he get in?

[danman83]

Id ring the police asap. Your a prisoner in your own home while hes getting off his head.

[danman83]

Thanks mate. Im feeling fresh tonight, and going metal detecting with my little boy tommorow. I cant wait lol

[danman83]

Yes , but shes hardwork, and just says

… i dont get why you just say no.. or want it.. its not hard saying no..

Everytime i lapse i say plz just keep checking on me and i tell her what are my triggers, so be aware, and that. But after my lapse this week, shes not said out.. even tonight were its norm fridays were i lapse. She never does. She just goes mad when i lapse or get it. Which i can understand.

Ill give you an example. You can have coke by putting a house key in the bag and snorting off the key.. this is callled having akey if you dont know.

And after my lapse the other day.. i told her about triggers.. and i said.. you see that key on there.. its a trigger to me because i use a key for that stuff, and it reminds me of using. I was just explaining how it is for me as she thinks its easy.

And her responce was.. pretty sad really dan.. so i cba with her anymore. She is right it is sad. But shes just an angry person full stop.

My mum checks on me and gives me good support. Its not hard really is it.. she seems to think i want attention. She really is hard work.lol

[danman83]

Thanks dfh.. its exactly how i feel. I can now go a month with out, then all of a sudden its there in front of me more or less. Most times i say no.. i think it may be when im just down.. god knows. But im going to be more aware this time, thanks

[danman83]

Whats he an addict off

[danman83]

Hey , hope your ok. Its a really sad story this.. im doing my best to stop taking coke and im dreadin my kids finding out about it.

Me and my partner cheated on each other and it brought nothing but arguments and its not nice on the kids at all.

All id suggest is, if your mum and dad are not willing to sort themselfs out. Think of yourself , work hard and get a good education. Be proud of yourself. And you and your sister help each other out.

Stay away from the coke please , your young and have your whole life ahead of you. I wish i was your age.

Do you worry about your sister while your at uni?

[danman83]

But hes not on the harder drugs is he? Like addicted to them like cannabis?

I was really bad on weed from age14 to 18.. i made my mums life hell im afraid to say. Some was hormornes.

I realised i had to stop as i was going nowere in life, i hung around with bums and i was one.

I skipped job interviews , and other various things. I hated it in the end.

But the main thing is.. i wanted to quit. And i set my self goals with a calender, crossing each day as it came. I lapsed a few times but i got there in the end.

Hr needs a new circle of friends and change his routine around. Take up the gym or something

[danman83]

I really do think if hes not willing to sort himself or do his best to try, i know what id do..

Just think if hes still the same in 5 10 years time.. and your with him. How would you feel?

I wish i could change the past.

Its your choice tho.

[danman83]

Whats he an addict of?

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