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What drugs is he on jen? You in a really sticky situation because ive always said i will stand by my kids even if they are on drugs and help them. And never kick them out. But i dont know if i actually would. He must be bad if hes robbing off you. And your struggling paying your bills. Id sit him down and say it stops now u get the help you need you will help him through it. Or he needs to move out. You cant live like that anymore. Thats all advice i can give. But he has to admit his mistakes and want to quit.. you cant force some1 to quit. Them wanting to is a step in the right direction. Good luck
Hes taking it because he knows he feels shit the next day and needs sleep.its a vicious circle. Ive been the same.. but when you have coke and beer..it produces another drug in your body..i cant remem what its called.. but that mixed with sleeping tabs or anti depress.. wont be good. And ive been there and done that.. ive not had it now for a week. Ive been locking my phone away and been on forums talking to people so its helping me alot. Next time u get a bf dont get one that has coke lol
The doctor has just gave me amitriptaline for a trapped nerve in my back and arm.. its an anti depressent.. nerve pain relief and helps you sleep.. people on coke will be taking it to help them sleep after there come down because when the cokes wearing off u feel really down and suicidal sometimes. And when you have a sleep you dont feel too bad. So it will be to get them sleep and not go on a downer after the coke wears off.. ill tell u how it works… imagine a scale of 1 to 10.. 10 u feel amazing.. 1 you feel down.. say you have a jammie doger biscuit u feel excited.. your brain releases endomorphins.. and u hit say 6 on the scale.. if you are going out fri night.. your excited again.. brain releases endos again and u hit say 6. . .. now.. u have coke you hit well over 10! Feel awsome and your using all your endomorphins the brain produces.. but when the coke wears off. U stop producing the endo morphins.. and you go to below 1.. which is were the downer comes from and people have commited suicide from this.. endomorphins is the chemical in your brain that makes you happy and sad.
Im goin through the exact same problem.. the minute alcohol passes my lips im getting cocaine.. im on my last chance with my girlfriend. I only have it once a month.. may be once every 2 week. Or even less.. my problem if i have a drink in the house. Ill get it dropped off to me. Quite sad really. But i hate the stuff.. it makes me suicidal coming down off it. Theres no positives apart from feeling good for a bit. If you want him to stop.. he needs quit alcohol . Or you keep his phone if you go out togther. I lock mine in a safe fri and sat.. well my gf does. But the main thing he needs to quit himself.. coke makes you start arguments so its an excuse to buy it. Im in the new year now. Fresh start.. and done lots of prevention planning
Company is what she does need but not highs lol what comes with highs is really big lows.
Im no expert on alcohol.. but you need lay some ground rules or move on.. i know you think you will struggle. But theres always someone better and you will cope.
Ye your right you cant chain her to her bed.. you just need to make her aware.. im able to cut off people because im 36.. and i just need my children and partner.. i think the main thing is that she wants to quit it and then she will want your help. I told my mum the other month and shes there now txting me all the time lol. Hope it all goes well
If shes contemplating suicide. Stay with her as much as you can. Keep reasuuring her she can do better. Because the more you go on the more its an excuse to want coke..then when it wears off she will feel down and suicidal… your brain is that clever.. because shes had coke it wants more and you dont know.. you will start arguments for no reason.. start thinking about other things that lead to it…next min your on to you dealer.. and your brains won.. its called emotional relapse.. and she needs to avoid these trigger points. Im no expert at this but if it was my little girl.. id be keeping a close eye on her.. giving her positive advice. Making her aware of this crap stuff coke and how bad it is. And shes got her future ahead of her. And most of all she needs friends that dont touch the stuff.
Am good locum..its hard getting your point across to a 19 year old. Im 36 got 4 kids. I work hard. And know i have responsibilities. I have it once a month.. last couple of month its been every couple of week. But my partner said she will help me and avoid alcohol which triggers it. Tell her to join this forum and read people stories. She needs to be aware of it. I hate the stuff and it has caused a lot of problems. I had 8 councilling sessions because i wanted to stop and i wasnt even having it every week. But the councillor said.. if you keep going back to it. You must be addicted.. i know shes denying it.. but ask her does she want to quit or carry on? I had to write down on a sheet and write the positives of having coke and next to it the negatives. And there was only 1 positive.. her life would be so much better with out. She just needs to realise this.
I wouldnt believe the lies and give her money to. She could do a prevention plan to avoid coke.. its stuff like avoid things that trigger it.. friends.. alchohol.. arguments. Driving places were she has picked coke up .. theres a lot more i have learned.just ask if you need help
Have youb spoke to her about it? 1st thing she needs to do is admit she has a problem.and she is young and still has her life ahead of her. Dont give up on her.