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Most of my adult life i have had issues with feeding like I will never find anyone decent.
Just like you I never gave myself credit for being a hard working good Mum until the point of giving up when I decided not to ever let anyone hurt me again and the change in my outlook just seemed to attract a decent guy who really appreciates all my good qualities.
I really hope the same happens for you.
I will look forward to hearing when your luck changes
Take lots of care
Hi
I brought up my 2 children alone for most of their lives and also had my fair share of loosers
As a single parent you need a partner who brings positive things to you and your children’s lives. Someone who is able to support you and help provide for you not the other way round.
I reached a point when I decided I was better off on my own as all the good men have been taken up. When surprise surprise I met the man of dreams. He is an amazing provider, he’s great with my kids. Don’t get me wrong he does have some minor faults LOL but nothing that is too difficult to tolerate.
Please don’t give up you deserve to be loved and happy but you really must get out of this harmful relationship.
I’m so glad you mentioned that you attract men who need fixing I can really relate to that.
Sit down and right a list of qualities you need in a man and don’t settle for anything less.
Never rush in to anything, if they are worth it they will wait till you are sure it’s right.
Wishing you tones of luck for finding Mr Right
Hi Hendricks
So sorry to her you’re feeling sad and alone.
I know that feeling well, its so difficult talking to family and friends because if you’re anything like me you don’t like to worry others.
I really don’t know how you have stuck it out for such a long time. I used to beg my Mum to leave my Dad for drinking too much but like you she stayed by his side. I’m afraid I don’t have very god staying power so not much good at giving advice but do hope you manage to find some happiness and peace.
All the best.