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And you can cheat it with saline hence why I said get temperature strip. If it isnt near body temperature it certainly hasn’t come out of him
dotParticipantIve just stopped myself. With urine tests you need to do it every 3 days. Also make sure you get the ones with temperature strip on…
dotParticipantIf you go down the correct route m. Harassment police etc you will get legal aid anyway. Regardless if you work they will support you as you are a victim of domestic abuse. I wish you luck with it.
dotParticipantYeah I hope he does or he will be where I am with nothing…. to be honest it goes both ways if people wanna fix it they do lol. Butbyeah dont enable his behaviour
dotParticipantI cant really comment as I’ve only just stopped it myself but my advice is to get tough now. Dont let him sweet talk you. It reminds me of me and what I was doing then it went secretive. Hope you can no it in the bud now before it’s too late.
dotParticipantWell basically she just said she doesn’t understand addiction and never will. She said I chose drugs over her it’s a fair comment. She says even if I stick to my plan and go rehab there is no hope so yeah.
I’m on week 2 and my emotions are everywhere its unbelievable indeed like am just stuck . My heads an absolute mess not gonna lie. But I know I will get there eventually its just hard right now.
Thabkyou for the advice though
dotParticipantAnd kel brain functionallity can return after a long period of abstinence
dotParticipantWell it’s my fault at the end of day. Didnt take my chance when I was offered it. And I had chance after chance after chance and didnt change my behaviours. I never get locked up a night in the cells. Bein placed on bail and was unable to see my kids for a while made me make this decision. I cant ever come back here ever… wouldn’t wish it on anyone I’ve got alot of work to do I know… if it didnt happen I wouldn’t of took any action I’ll be honest
dotParticipantTo be fair that’s a valid comment. That’s why I’m taking my time to fix myself because if I got back with my missus right now I’d just go back. I need time to stay off it a long long time well that’s ne personally. Doesn’t always mean you are always gonna run back to it.
dotParticipantPosted my story on this forum :/ it’s not even scraping the barrel theres so much to tell but it wont change what’s happened I guess
dotParticipantYes I’m the user. But I had to lose everything to stop. Too little too late am in bits but I have to keep going. I wont ever use again i know i wont and thankyou
dotParticipantI also believe you wont change till you are at rock bottom. You have to have nothing well that’s the case with me.
dotParticipantWhat I found was that when I said I was clean and wasnt years back was that my behaviours was allowed and enabled by my partner.
Most cant just stop they have to be ready to stop. And if they sent ready the lies will continue.
dotParticipantWouldn’t wish anyone to be in my position. Take your chance. Dont be like me and be forced to do it separated with no chance of going back.
I’m on day 14 now I promise after 3 days the symptoms disperse. Your head will clear up and your judgements wont be clouded as much. Just do it mate
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