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You have a solid career and a future.
If you let him into your life it will all disappear
You will never trust him.
Without trust there is nothing.
So as Hilton says RUN
Get on with your life whilst you still have one
You don’t have to live like this and you don’t deserve it
Life can be good and you will recover from this even though you feel so worn down you can’t see it now
Leave him to get on with it and don’t look back
Don’t worry about how he feels about it; it’s time to move on
I know it’s not easy you should be so proud of yourself
Life can change and change is good
Live a good life
none of us know what tomorrow will bring
How are you doing?
I am hoping you are okay?
You deserve goodness in your life that your future now holds
Excellent advice
Today I went to see my ex on the psych ward
He was on his knees crying, thanking me for coming saying he loved me we could make a go of it again
I am the love of his life the whole works
A wonderful glimpse of the man i met and I truly loved him with all my heart
Then after 40 minutes he held my hands and said pick me up tonight at 9 my dad can have the kids
My mate from school will sort us a gram and it’s 50 each we’ll get right off it it’s good stuff – just once yeah?
Like a child he looked so excited
They promise again and again to change and there is always an excuse and tears when they don’t and you melt and think you are the only one who can save them
Truth is he doesn’t want to be saved he absolutely loves Coke/crack
As long as you put up with it she will let you
Walk away as hard as it is
In time you will see this for what it is
Every day you do is a win
Take time for yourself to reflect and hold your head up and move on
Save yourself any more pain and move on
realise he has just handed you the golden ticket ???? to restart your life
Most addicts won’t let you go easily
Don’t look back for answers you won’t get any; and certainly not any truthful ones
They say an addict will not stop until they have lost everything
I am not sure if even that will break the cycle
My ex has literally lost everything – his kids, his house, his business, his marriage and his freedom
He is on a psych ward wandering about still begging the nurses for ‘white’ after 6 months of admission
That is still his main priority even now his subconscious is primarily begging for crack cocaine
He never asks how his kids are
He asks about nothing but money for crack “send me 80”
I will never work out how this drug has the power it does
Dan
You have helped me so much
Sad you have relapsed
That’s the worst part – the switching of emotions and the not knowing what they actually mean and feel. Go on the theory that actions speak louder than words.
They love you, they hate you, they leave you hanging, they hate you, they tear a million strips off you, they exclude you, they steal off you, they lie to you, they are sorry, they hate you, they love you, they are off again!!
You just can’t keep up with it, let alone work out what is true, not much in the end
It’s a grieving process that during; you will find NO comfort for your feelings
That’s a sad fact but it’s true and tbh honest you must accept it, to be able move forward to be free of it all.
They will let you hang in there enabling the situation as long as you want to
I used to think my husband was different and things would work out; but I was daydreaming into a nightmare
Don’t be scared of the change it can be good
Your post really upset me; you too have been through so so much.
It saddens me that good people get treated this way. it’s just tragic the hell that addiction brings