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Well done at your bravery for making the decision and sticking with it.
Like other postings, I too returned and have never regretted anything so much. While you will still feel some responsibility for his welfare (they are good at making us feel guilty for their failings) as someone said to me, he is an adult and only he is responsible for himself and his actions so remain strong.
Wish I had your willpower 🙂 xx
Hi, take away the children from a previous relationship and your post could have been written by me.
Being where you are I’m praying that unlike me you will find the strength to make the break from him. I so wish I could. I’ve always considered myself a strong person but for reasons I can’t fathom I won’t do it and to date haven’t managed to find someone/organisation that could help me follow through what is a daily dream of living a relaxed “normal” life where I don’t dread returning ‘home’ from the school run.
A life without his constant put downs, paranoia, ranting, incessant negativity, the list is endless.
I know I’m doing my kids a disservice staying but can’t seem to find the willpower to take them from their Dad and help them through the inevitable heartache. Especially as it’s not like you’re dealing with a rational human being who you can arrange contact with the kids with.
Anyway I hope my post hasn’t in any way dissuaded you and if you ever need someone to chat to who’s in the same boat, please contact me 🙂 xx
Hi, take away the children from a previous relationship and your post could have been written by me.
Being where you are I’m praying that unlike me you will find the strength to make the break from him. I so wish I could. I’ve always considered myself a strong person but for reasons I can’t fathom I won’t do it and to date haven’t managed to find someone/organisation that could help me follow through what is a daily dream of living a relaxed “normal” life where I don’t dread returning ‘home’ from the school run.
A life without his constant put downs, paranoia, ranting, incessant negativity, the list is endless.
I know I’m doing my kids a disservice staying but can’t seem to find the willpower to take them from their Dad and help them through the inevitable heartache. Especially as it’s not like you’re dealing with a rational human being who you can arrange contact with the kids with.
Anyway I hope my post hasn’t in any way dissuaded you and if you ever need someone to chat to who’s in the same boat, please contact me 🙂 xx