[hazelaquarius]

Do you have a plan on how you are going to deal with the situation?

I think, for me, leaving him might send him in a downward spiral but it might be what he needs to hit rock bottom so he can wake up, I can’t keep putting my life on hold for him anymore it’s not fair. I’m really scared he might die though and I don’t want that on my conscience I already have anxiety as it is.

I’m 26 and feel like I should be settling down now 🙁

[hazelaquarius]

Exactly! I feel like I only get the real him for a short time through the week so I don’t want to throw that time away with me being off with him but at the same time it may seem to him like he gets away with it. I don’t think there is a right answer to it really. And yes if I was acting moody with him I imagine he would just go out and get drugs.

I’m at a stage in my life now where I feel like he’s holding me back, i.e I’m ready to settle down and have a family and get a house and he’s holding me back from doing those things.

I think I’m just going to give him an ultimatum on Monday when he’s normal that if he doesn’t seek help to change then I will have to leave him, unfortunately I think that might be the only thing that might make him change when I leave

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