[hollieb97]

Thanks for replying.

The trouble is, that I’m finding it difficult to understand as I never stop him from going out, I’m completely laid back over it, and I never say that I mind him doing it. Sooo, I’m just really stuck!

[hollieb97]

My partner binges with drink and cocaine too – it’s horrendous – the sesh we call it and sometimes he never turns up back home (we live together).

If he is ever sober and you feel you can talk to him, why don’t you try? Maybe just politely put across your outlook on things and how it does actually effect you. I appreciate with drug and drink users, you almost have to be more careful in explaining yourself. But maybe just state that being honest is so very important.

I hope he sends you something lovely at least for Valentine’s Day!

[hollieb97]

I am almost, but not, in a similar situation. It seems to be if you act in a mood they retaliate badly but if you aren’t moody they feel they can get away with it.

I really hope someone’s able to answer you with something helpful!

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