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Hi SSS,
I’m sorry to read your post and see that your boyfriends drug addiction is having such a strain on your relationship.
May be you would like to contact us at The Icarus Trust as we are a charity that provides support for people going through what you are having to deal with. I could put you in touch with one of our trained and experienced people who would understand what you are going through and would be able to help you answer some of your questions. There may be other support near where you live that they could let you know about.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope this helps.
All the best.
Hi Lexi, sandy and Gil,
I’m sorry that all of you are having such a hard time. I know that ‘s really tough.
Just to let you know that I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust who support people like yourselves, who are coping with a partner’s addiction.
We offer trained and experienced people who you might find it helpful to talk to. They would understand what you are going through and would also tell you what other support is available in your area.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you all.
Hi Desperate mother,
So sorry to read the post about your son’s addiction. It’s really tough for you I know.
I’m glad that you’re talking to these guys on the blog as they are really supportive.
If you need any more help I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust. We are there to offer support to people having to deal with a family member’s addiction. If you get in touch you would be able to speak with one of our trained and experienced people, which may help you.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.
Hi Jess,
I’m really sorry to hear what a hard time you’re having because of your boyfriend’s addiction.
I am worried that you say he is abusive so you might want to know the National Domestic Violence Helpline, as they will be best placed to give you advice on your situation and what to do next. Their number is 0808 2000 247 and it is free to call, open 24 hours a day, and calls are confidential.
You could also look at Women’s Aid’s website, they are the national charity working to keep women and children safe and they have a directory of local support services which you can find here – http://www.womensaid.org.uk/azrefuges.asp
Also I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust that supports the families of addicts and if you get in touch with us you could speak with one of our trained and experienced volunteers. Talking to one of them might help.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Hope that this helps. Keep yourself safe.
Hi Sophmum,
Thank you for posting. It must be very stressful holding the family together without support from your partner. I can that his drinking is affecting all of you.
I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust which is there to provide support for people dealing with the addiction of a family member. If you would like to talk to someone who would understand please get in touch. We have experienced trained people you could talk with and they will help you to know what other help is available in your area.
Maybe talking to one of them would help you to find a way forward.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck.
Hi Janette,
I’m sorry that your partner has relapsed after three weeks. That must be very hard for you. Would you like to talk with someone who would understand what you are feeling? If so please contact The Icarus Trust.We are a charity that supports people like you having to cope with a partner’s addiction. We have trained and experienced people you could talk with and who would be able to tell you what other support is out there for you.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.
Hope you got your card Hox.
Hi DNanon,
I’m sorry that your son is still not in touch with you – that must be very hurtful and upsetting.
If you feel it would be helpful to talk with one of our experienced and trained people please contact us at The Icarus Trust. We support people going through similar issues to yourself.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.
Hi James,
Thanks for posting. You’re right it does help to share problems.
I can understand how your dad’s drinking has put such a strain on you and your mum and I can see how worried you are about how this is affecting your mum, as well as yourself no doubt.
I see that you have tried different things which haven’t worked for you, and I wonder whether you would like to contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for people that are going through similar things to you, dealing with a family member’s addiction.
We have specially trained, experienced people that you and your mum could be put in touch with, and may be talking to one of them would help you to decide how you go on from here.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.
Hi Lil,
Thanks for posting. I’m so sorry that you are living through this nightmare of your husband’s addiction to cocaine. I can see why you say that it feels like someone else’s life.
You definitely are not alone in how you feel. I work for The Icarus Trust which is a charity set up to support people like yourself. We work with many people who are living with the impact of a family member’s addiction.
Sadly your husband won’t able to get help until he admits that he needs it but maybe you could do with some support for yourself. If you contact us we can put you in touch with one of our trained people, who would listen to you and try to help you find a way ahead.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps. All the best.
Hi Janette,
I’m sorry to read your post and can understand how difficult things are for you with your partner’s drug habit. It is a lonely place to be especially if you can’t talk to your family.
This site is great as you can speak to others on line who are in the same boat.
If you would like some more support for yourself, the charity I work for would be able to offer you help. We are called The Icarus Trust and, if you contact us, you could be assigned to one of our trained and experienced people. They would understand what you are dealing with and provide you with support as well as letting you know what other help there might be local to you.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that you get some support and things work out for you.
Hi,
Thank you for posting and sharing your story. I can understand that you feel at the end of your tether, as dealing with your wife’s alcohol and prescription drug addiction must be very stressful and emotionally draining.
You sound like you could do with some help for yourself, so maybe you would like to contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports those people who are living with the impact of the addiction of a family member or friend.
if you contact us we would put you in touch with one of our experienced and trained people. You could talk with them which may help you to see a way ahead.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps. Good luck!
Hi
You sound like a really strong support for your girlfriend, who has obviously had such a very tough life, as well as her children. It’s good that she is beginning to access therapy from the NHS but I’m sorry that you are in such a difficult situation and have no one who can support you.
I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust that provides support for families and friends of people with addictive behaviours. We know that this is very difficult so we provide a service called ‘Family Friends’. These are a team of trained and experienced people that you could talk with if you make contact with us. They may help you to understand what is happening, to answer some of your questions, help and signpost you to what other help is available.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps and that you are able to get some support. Good luck.
Hi,
Thanks for sharing your story. I’m certain you are doing the right thing and hope that your son is able to access help when he’s ready.
I hope that with the work you do you probably have a lot of support for yourself around you but if you did want any extra help please contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity supporting family and friends of addicts.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best.
Hi Dfh,
So sorry to read your post and see how hard things are for you . I’m glad that you have a good friend that you can turn to and the people on this site are really supportive because it does help to talk.
You must have to stay so strong to be able to provide for your family as well as support your partner but, as you say, that is very draining. So I was wondering if you would like some help for yourself. If so please contact us at The Icarus trust.
We are a charity that provides support for people going through what you are, having to deal with a family member’s addiction. We have a team of people who are trained and experienced and you be assigned to one of them if you make contact. Talking with them might help you see a way forward.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best.