[jenny]

I hope he does , don’t forget be strong and have your borders, although I’m not an expert I would say he may still ‘slip’ again if he thinks all is forgiven and once he gets back into the home he may take advantage. I hate to say hide anything of value but if he no money and you have his card the need maybe too strong.

Good luck x

[jenny]

If you was my child I would say – Please walk away , while he is having a relationship with drugs he cannot fully invest in a relationship with you . He will take you down with him .

It had been said before that addicts ask for a large amount of money to either pay of drug suppliers or to buy so they can sell.

[jenny]

Taking drugs and being addicted is a completely selfish act , a choice they take when starting on this Horrendous journey . They only think of themselves and not the people who love them. They turn against us and use us . The drugs take control over their life’s and personalities. They become a shell of themselves.

It’s hard to sleep when worried about your children , it’s an illness but we all live in hope .

Sending hugs xx

[jenny]

Thank you , he’s not talking to me at the moment

[jenny]

Thank you for your insight and advice.

It’s like he has two personality’s , at the moment Richard wants nothing to do with me Or his dad as I’m interfering and controlling, plus I won’t give him any more money. He won’t let us in his flat and is verbally abusive to me if I knock. He has been doing drugs for over 14 years from my reckoning .

I have asked my elderly mother (84) to Pop round on Monday , hopefully that might wake him up , but he doesn’t seem to care about anyone but himself and his friends,, his cousin is reaching out to him as well , So he might speak to him – I know he’s hurting but he blanking me and doesn’t want my help, and the stress of knowing his rent of £1400 each month isn’t being paid . He’s burying his head in the sand and he looks like an old man .

[jenny]

Tell your son no more money And mean it , your money is paying for his drugs. Give him food and let him live in the caravan , don’t let him into the house if he might steal from you.

As he is still speaking to you find places where he can get help.

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