[jillian]

Hi Sianny
I know exatly how you feel because my sister so sounds like you mum –
She too blames everyone else and has always got an excuse to have a drink – when drunk she is violent, venemous, abusive, nasty and the slightest little thing can trigger her to having a drink – although she does admit she is an alcoholic but thinks that because she says it it is OK to drink – she too says noone cares but like you we always there for her (although I dont live with her – that must be really hard for you)
It absolutely wears you down n i do not know how to help her anymore – She is on antidrepressents but obviously do not work mixed with the alcohol – all we can do is be there for them but it is very trying and soul destroying to watch the people you love ruin their lives – my sister has lost her husband of 27 years, her two boys have left her because of the verbal abuse, although her 16 year old daughter still lives with her n i really dont know how she copes – my sister too stays in bed all day then says she has no life and no one care – it is a vicious circle –

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