[jmann]

And also he keeps saying to me that if I brought more money into the family (I don’t work due to bad depression and anxiety) that we wouldn’t have to just rely on his money.

So basicly he means when things like this happen we don’t need to worry??

I know I have to start bringing more money in and that’s something I’m trying to work through but is his reasoning correct or is he just projecting the situation onto me??

[jmann]

Thankyou so much for your reply. I just can’t do that to my children..they absolutely adore him. I was so adamant this time that he was going…but then he cried – and yes I know probably sounds like manipulation and perhaps it is but he literaly NEVER cries.

I just don’t know. I feel so utterly lost…????

[jmann]

And also he keeps saying to me that if I brought more money into the family (I don’t work due to bad depression and anxiety) that we wouldn’t have to just rely on his money.

So basicly he means when things like this happen we don’t need to worry??

I know I have to start bringing more money in and that’s something I’m trying to work through but is his reasoning correct or is he just projecting the situation onto me??

[jmann]

Thankyou so much for your reply. I just can’t do that to my children..they absolutely adore him. I was so adamant this time that he was going…but then he cried – and yes I know probably sounds like manipulation and perhaps it is but he literaly NEVER cries.

I just don’t know. I feel so utterly lost…????

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