[ka123]

Thanks for replying to me!!! Yes I call it going on the session too just disappearing so frustrating isn’t it!! Oh the conversation has been had many a time but look hopefully progress will be made soon

Hope you have a lovely day tomorrow too!!

[ka123]

Hi,

I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this!

I personally do not think it’s unreasonable at all to expect honesty from a partner when someone is dishonest we feel very betrayed.

I’m glad you have approached this topic with him. It’s in his hands now to be honest with you. He cant paint this relationship with the same brush as his previous ones . You are entitled to have a boundary around this so my only advice would be to remain firm with him.

Xx

[ka123]

Thank you so so much to both of you for replying, it’s honestly so refreshing to hear from someone who understands. I’ve felt so alone I’m sure you know how isolating it can feel.

Yes his parents are fully aware and have been dealing with this a lot longer than me their approach is to leave him be, he will go weeks months of being normal and then this will happen he will binge for weeks and just turn into a different person

Glad to know it’s common that they will deflect the blame , thinking of you both and so sorry you are going through this as i know it’s intensely painful sending love x

[ka123]

I’m so sorry that you are going through this, I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling for all the lies and deceit. It may be hard to see it now but this may be this best thing for you and your children to move on and heal and be happy as you all deserve, he sounds as though he is a wounded man with some deep rooted issues that only he himself can help, it’s amazing that you stuck by him and tried to help him,you deserve somebody who will be truthful to you ,I know from personal experience the pain of somebody lying and hiding things from you it would make you feel as if you are going mad at times, wishing you and your children all the best xx

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