[kate23]

I am sitting here tonight trying to decide whether to stay or go. Like you my sober husband is a lovely man but my drunk husband is a different person. It’s nothing new but it has become worse over the last couple of years. He is drinking almost every night. Promises continually to stop but never does. It’s affecting his health in several different ways but still he goes on. Denies it constantly. Like someone else who responded I worry that if I leave he will be worse. But by staying am I helping? I don’t know the answer. Look after yourself and don’t waste the rest of your life blaming yourself Every drink was his decision

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