[kathan]

I do hope you have been and had a health check given your partners sexual activities. It is important you look after yourself.
I f he was not an addict would you put up with that sort of behaviour? Only I wonder sometimes if opening up due to 12 steps is emotional blackmail to get you to stay.
We hang around waiting for the person we know and love to reappear. But do they

[kathan]

So hard for you.
Take care x

[kathan]

I am in the same position as you with my son. He wants help but wont commit 100%. He plays me and his dad off against one another. He came here to my house for food and lodging while in treatment,I just can’t help but feel he is taking the p**s.
Anyhow have told him to leave.
Look after yourself, you deserve respect,love and security. Trust is not in the addicts vocabulary. Anger and anxiety are there watchwords.
Maybe having to cope with it on his own will make him commit.
Look after yourself xx

[kathan]

Hi Libby,even at its most disruptive, I have told my 38yr I love him.Dont like him,but love him.In his more lucid state says knowing that has been a rock for him

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