[kitty888]

Hi in total agreement with all the comments

We do have to accept that people have free will and everyone has a choice as painful or as difficult it is to accept

The main thing is to focus on you now .

I realised I had been so absorbed on fixing and rescuing my partner that I had stopped living myself

The main thing now is to start thinking about what you want and to start planning things to start having fun again .

It will take time , and we all have days where it hits you and it feels surreal.

The main thing now is to plan your life and enjoy the moment & start thinking about future happy times ????????????

[kitty888]

My husband passed over on the Winter Solstice 2021 due to his alcoholism

I tried everything I could to make him better

He suffered from panic attacks & anxiety

The drink was a form of self medication.

In the end it took him physically, mentally & spiritually.

It’s the most cruelest and debilitating disease which had such a devastating effect on the alcoholic & their loved ones

At the moment I am trying to come to terms with it , it’s surreal and I can’t believe it’s happened .

I am sending lots of love & hugs to all of you who are suffering due to alcoholism . ????????????

[kitty888]

Hi to all of you and to the writer of the original post

I can so resonate with all your comments

I am sitting writing this with tears for all of your sufferings and mine too.

My husband too is an alcoholic I tried to cope but eventually could cope no longer and he went to live with his parents, who now too have reached their limits

It’s the roller coaster of believing they can get better and thinking they are.

I have found the lies and the manipulation unbearable and it’s so incredibly lonely. I just want to say this is so not fair, he used to be the kindest man you could meet.

I blame myself too, why did I not do something earlier? I have experienced every emotion a human can.

At the moment I am just trying to pick myself back up and look after myself and the children. It is so hard and I send love and support to all of you who find yourself in this suffering

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