[michellec20]

Hi sorry to hear this . Is sounds exactly what am going through and I was such a happy person with everything together financially now am depressed about and shout ball all the time in house about same shit were is rest of your wages this week or did u take £30 out my pocket or why is the house camera been deleted off my phone oh that’s right cos ur stupid dealer pals dropping shit off. Am nearing the end of taking this anymore have 2 children one to him our son is 4 . Been together 7 year I didn’t know he took stuff till about 2 year in drove out the game to go get more shit and warped his car his dad bought him a month earlier around a pole so he got banned and a fine and a night in jail . Longest he has ever stoped was 6 weeks went to meetings and stuff but he’s 41 now I don’t think he will change . Totally drained . Does anyone know meeting in Glasgow can go talk to people going through same x

[michellec20]

So Wednesday night and he’s back to it again in and out toilet lodging on he’s sleeping am sitting downstairs crying kids in bed this is life for me I need strength to walk away. Texted his family saying I need help with him he’s back up to same shit guess what the ignored me and will pretend everything’s fine tomo and still fine with him I blame them for letting him be like this for so long sorry people am down and upset x

[michellec20]

Am not sure I’ve never took shit and don’t even know how much it costs but I would say on the weekend he spends about £150 on it . Am glasgow . Yes it’s really hard especially when u are mad in love and have kids and see the good person when not on it to break Away but I think that’s what it will take for him to wake up yes he’s told me few times he wants to stop x

[michellec20]

I really don’t know where it steamed from I have thoughts but not sure I think his mum was a alky years back his mum and sister always cover for him. Am 36 he’s 38 . Where does he go for counciling? £60 would be well worth it to save him and my family he I feel he does want to stop 6 wks longest he has stoped he works so hard 6 days a week it’s horrible am drowning in it now tho and it’s not good for me to be depressed when I’ve got the kids to think of xx hope your man beats this shit x

[michellec20]

He’s been doing it for years when I got with him 6 month in I knew he was taking it but un aware he had a problem . He holds down a job and is a nice guy when this isn’t affecting him or us with wages disappearing. We have been together 4 year and has done all the time . We talk about it he doesn’t like it he went to meetings for 5-6 weeks there and was doing well then stoped and when straight back to doing it again my family have banned him from there house as he got wasted at mums birthday at Hogmanay and kids where there with us gutted ????

[michellec20]

Phone thing is a good idea

[michellec20]

am in same situation except we had a baby boy except he doesn’t hon out anymore he just sit get some mad with it in house in toilet says it’s just a few drinks makes me out to be a nutter. But u can tell he totally changes and can hardly talk make sure he sorts himself b4 having a baby as it’s hard enough without one add a baby and it’s worse xxx hope ur ok x

[michellec20]

He usually has a drink first but o think he’s done without drink too as he’s not really a big drinker more of a binger. Last try hope he gets off it and we can have a happy life????

[michellec20]

He’s has told me he has a problem and wants to stop and goes to meetings . I just don’t get how

Talking at a meeting can stop

Him when can take it when with our beautiful wee boy . it’s been going on for years tho b4 I was even with him . His ex left same reason . His sitter always covers for him for some weird reason she had to pay £1000 one night when people where after him .

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