Hello akd1961 I’m so very very sorry you and your family are going through this. The first step to recovery for your daughter is admitting she has problem. My family have and are still going through a similar situation to yours (in our case it’s our son)
If you have a good GP then I would certainly ask your daughter to seek their help, advice and support. If your daughter would agree to you or her partner going with her then all the more supportive for her. I don’t know what we would have done without ours. The GP will be able to prescribe medication that will help your daughter manage her anxieties as well as alternatives for her addiction.
Please don’t think you are alone, our family has been torn apart by alcohol, cocaine and gambling with our son accumulating debts of thousands of pounds. He is starting to rebuild his life (even though it’s only two weeks in) but with the help and support from AA we are beginning to see our lovely son coming back to us. I truly hope, this will also happen for you. God bless to you and your family, stay strong.