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Oh bless both of you,my heart goes out to you both,having your childhood ruined by alcohol and a parent who just can’t say no. Well my story ive been to my beautiful, funny 52 year old cousins funeral today.And thanks to alcohol which caused liver failure 3 weeks ago, apparently she was told 2 years ago by the doctor to stop drinking but I guess she thought it would never happen to her.im very spiritual and believe I the afterlife and angels exactly the same as she did so I don’t tend to cry at funerals.But today I sobbed like a baby,watching my uncles and cousins carry her in,watching my mom who’s 78, checking on her baby brother ( who’s in his late 60s but my cousins dad) watching her son come back from Australia travelling and reading his memories and sobbing.just heart breaking, too many families grieving because of alcohol xxx
Oh bless you cali, I know how you feel my husband has a drink problem can’t go a day without having a drink, also is a narcissistic twat and takes cocaine. I remember we went to majorca 4 years ago, he was so angry towards me on the plane because he had a drink. I was so embarrassed and just put my jumper on my face and silently cried.its not good for your mental health at all and you feel on edge all the time you are out.and if he gets into an argument with a guy. You can guarantee its my fault and then he starts on me. I’ve told him to leave many times and I want a divorce but he just shrugs his shoulders. He’s so nasty his tongue is like venom ive lost all my confidence thanks to him
And I hate pubs and alcohol with a passion now xxx
He also is constantly with his dealer who I hate with a passion, but I keep getting told he’s a good kid and he’s not my dealer. I said he is,and he’s not a friend you are easy money to him.but yet again I’m crazy and a bunny boiler
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Oh god how to you cope.i have a husband who’s not only a cocaine addict but can’t go a day without a drink and hes a narcissus. I’m drained, emotionally, mentally everything. I’m fed up with the lies,with the turning it on me,to the lies about money. I actually feel so lonely. I’m just worked 6 days straight and I’m working tomorrow .came home today, hes in a foul mood, I try to hold my own but god its hard.ive come home to house thats not been cleaned or washing done, so obviously I’ve had to do all that I’m knackered, but according to him I don’t work and I’m fat and idol.im a size 12, 5*3. He’s so nasty I hate him and I actually wish him dead too. For mine and the kids sanity x</p>
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Hi lovely, none of this is your fault just remember that. I actually think they are just wired wrong , ive been with my husband for 28 years, and it’s a living hell every single day.god knows how long he’s been taking cocaine for but he’ has a drink problem and he’s a narcissistic pig too.The lies he has told and is still doing on a daily basis to my face its unbearable. I’ve asked for a divorce but he refuses to go.hes absolutely broken me, I don’t trust anyone anymore. My advice to you is move on and work on yourself xx</p>
Exactly, then cheeky b was wanting you know what all night. Really, he makes me physically sick x
Oh my god mammyessex I feel for you. I’m actually thinking the same about my hubby that he’s cheated and now hates if I go out.for instance I went out yesterday afternoon with the girls for food and drink he was meal to be working away but came home early. He phoned me and asked where I was,so I told him.he thought I would lie,I said im not you. Anyway I walked in at 9,30 last night. You could see he knew he was losing even more control off me,and ive got a new job now too.he wasn’t nasty Last night but he kept sniping and was saying things like, was it busy( I knew he was asking if there were men there) I said you need to realise I’m not you and don’t talk or have my picture taken with strange men.( obviously I found pictures of him smiling with two women on his phone. D head didn’t know what to say. I said yes you need to realise I know everything you do. Xx
Hi mammyessex, how are you beautiful? So hes been cheating, b. ….. how long for? You know you are better off without him.i know you are hurting now but in time you will be happy. Mine is still the same selfish creature xxx
Hi mammyessex, how are you beautiful? So hes been cheating, b. ….. how long for? You know you are better off without him.i know you are hurting now but in time you will be happy. Mine is still the same selfish creature xxx
Nothing cause he thinks I’m bluffing. I’m not accepting this life anymore, I hate it x
Still really worried about donthaveaclue x
Hello mammyessex, how are you? He went out Mon for a drink after work phoned up with his friend ( the dealer lol) getting a taxi back. Absolutely no chance I said. So he stayed at his mates came back 6am never went to work, slept all day. I have slept downstairs all week, not spoke to him.told him I want a divorce x
He thinks I won’t do it but I am going to,I made the bed up in the living room and he said whos that for, I said me im not sleeping or going anywhere near you. And I will sleep down here every night now I don’t care,he needs to know there’s consequences for his behaviour, im also phoning a solicitor on Thursday x
Hey fayzey, no nowhere to go apart from work, I’ve just tried talking to him again but to no avail, so ive told him I want a divorce cause hes making me ill. He’ just sat there no response. I’m done, I was a long time ago but today I just can’t carry on like it anymore x and nearly 50,acting like a kid like my idiot head whos 45 x
Hey fayzey, no nowhere to go apart from work, I’ve just tried talking to him again but to no avail, so ive told him I want a divorce cause hes making me ill. He’ just sat there no response. I’m done, I was a long time ago but today I just can’t carry on like it anymore x