Hi thanks for replying, I worked it out between 40-60 per week but yeah alot, if I bring this up she just gets mad, couple of weeks ago she had alot of gin on a Fri night, to the point of her being sick before bed, at 4 am I was getting up for work and she got up to see to the dog, there was a big bang and crash, she had fainted, my immidiete reaction was drinking too much, but she got angry at this was even brought up, she was lucky as she fell into a table bursting her nose, I fear this is just the start of the downhill