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Goodtime you did the right thing! You have done the best for him along 12 years!
It’s painful i know but you have to save yourself from a bad situation…only your son can save himself!
I’m really hope that you can find some peace in your life
A big hug
- Hi LS i’m a survivor…my soulmate was an alchoolic addict! It is heartbreaking see them destroy themselves but please listen to the advices of the caring women of the forum:
- Go with your mum, please…save you and your baby! The things will go worse and worse…nothing can stop them! Only themselves but rarely happened…it’s not a place for you and your child!
Hi i can relate with this…my love was a wonderful tender funny creative man…i miss him all the time! But the disease made him a dark stranger…not violent thanks God! But someone who i didn’t know…anyway i remember the good times together and i miss him!!! There’s not one around so wonderful…i am grateful that he was in my life….i lost him 4 years ago! My life is not so good now but i’m trying to live again with him in my mind and in my dreams…
We never forget our loved ones ‘cos they were so special…thanks and take care hugs Roxi
Yes it’s good talkin’ about that with friends as you who can understand…we all lived the same bad experience and we are here without our loved ones…and we know how it can be devastating..!!..thank Barbara and MaryPoppins
Very hearthbreaking and painful Barbaram
Yes the same for me…i treated him as he didn’t want to stop, as he had lack of willpower and i reacted with anger…and when he died i blamed myself for not understand, i felt guilty…
But now i know that we did what we can….i read the experiences of other women in this forum and in others! You can’t save someone from this horrible desease…they have to save themself! We did what we could…
So good you want to be a better person…it’s the right thing to do!
A warm hug Roxi
Thank you for explain so well what happens to them…it’s something i had to know at the time to understand the behaviour of my loved one and why he couldn’t change…
Thank you for explain so well what happens to them…it’s a thing i had to know at the time to understand the behaviour of my loved one and why he couldn’t change…
I understand…living with an addicted is so miserable and heartbroken…if you love him or her! I did it and i was so alone at the time…i didn’t tell no one of my family and friends…if you can talk with your friend or someone you can trust to lessen the burden or vent in this site…people here can really understand ‘cos we’re living the same life…take care of you!
Hi to all! I lost my partner almost 4 years ago in a accident caused by his alcohol addiction
I was and i am sometimes overwhelmed by emotions and feeling of guilty ‘cos at the time i didn’t understand what addiction is…i treated him as he had not enough will…i was angry at him ‘cos he betrayed all his promises to stop drinking!
He was a funny cheerful nice kind loving soul…i miss him all the time! I didn’t understand he was fighting his demons and he had a deep pain inside that i understimated….i’m paying the worst price: i losed him! And it’s a terribile void inside and outside..
I’m glad i finally find this forum…i see by your posts that you share with me emotions and pain…thanks to listen me, english is not my language…love and peace Roxi