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  • in reply to: Cant cope with husbands alcohol addiction #28956
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    It’s OK.. Assurance that staying was a mistake ????‍♀️????

    in reply to: Cant cope with husbands alcohol addiction #28904
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    Nova = I answered this in 2018

    Sad part… I am still with him.

    My son graduated = his life went on like normal

    My daughter.. She is now seeing and understanding much more.

    Just wanted to let you know… It does not change.

    We have clean months, and then we have horrible binging months.

    THIS WAS A SIGN… Out of nowhere, this alert came up. I am back in the same place I was in 2018.

    But worse now, unemployed and trying to figure out what to do.

    I am not providing my daughter with the right example.

    I need to let go

    I wonder who else is still stuck in the same place from 2018

    in reply to: Cant cope with husbands alcohol addiction #10056
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    Came upon this post… I’m on the same boat. I have my oldest going to college out of state and I can’t disrupt him leaving to college if I tell him I can’t be married to his father anymore. We also have a 7 year old girl and loves her dad. I AM STUCK!

    I just found out he’s hiding the liquor but can’t confront him. Like you, he will take it out on something else and smash it up. He binge drinks and “I only drink in the weekend” is his response. I thought he was the only person to use that exact line. Like said “war cry”

    I’m glad I’m not alone, but no one is close enough for me to express it openly to.

    I’m hoping someone can provide guidance because I’m an tired, stuck, frustrated, ashamed and all the horrible feelings tied to being married to an alcoholic in complete denial.

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