The exact same thing is happening to me! I am so confused and I don’t know what to do I have put up with my partners cocaine addition for years convincing myself it’s going to get better and when he tells me ‘I’m going to change this time for good ‘ I true to convince myself that he’s going to change and he never does. I’m at the point I can’t put up with the lies anymore I don’t trust him and he’s ruined our relationship. Iv bailed him out of drug debts taken him to group sessions but nothing works! I find empty drug bags during the week when he hasn’t even been drinking I’m constantly worried about it.