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I’ve come to realise that you can’t help someone who won’t help themselves. I’ve been attending Adfam local support group and grim reality I’m afraid. My partner has used ver 10 years and its getting worse tbh I’ve had enough. He works but all his money goes on drugs I pay the bills and anything the children need, he pays then asks to borrow back. I’m in serious debt and am becoming extremely angry and resentful now. Will he get any help?

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You are not stupid he has to take some responsibility for his actions. X

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Hi, I feel exactly what you are saying I have been with my partner 10 years have 2 kids and my situation appears like yours. It’s getting worse not better. He won’t get help. All the money goes on alcohol, drugs and gambling. I really want out now. I have had a year out with my youngest and just come off antidepressants as I was so low. I can’t say it will get better to you but I have been attending a local Adfam support group and it really helps to talk. I have stopped feeling guilty now as I know it is not my fault but I’m angry and resentful that I have let it go on so long, will he get help? Does he think he has a problem? Why does he do it? I have just given a time line and think I need to stick to it this time. The group offers info sessions as well. Check out if there is one near you. Honestly they are really helping me. Xx

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