[tired-and-weary]

springtime, I know how you feel about the guilt, have spent years with that hanging around my neck, but over the last 6 weeks I have actually managed to kick guilt away. My daughter is having psychotherapy, she is also on a power to chose course through social services, to help her identify abusive and controlling behaviour and I have noticed a difference in her, she is being tested every week to see if she is clean, so far so good, but early days. Learning to put yourself first is the hardest lesson of all. My heart bleeds for you not having your grandchild around, but she will realise when she is older that things were not of your making. You are definitely not the only one going through this, please let the guilt go away, you have done nothing wrong, your daughter is totally responsible for her choices. xxx

[tired-and-weary]

thank you so much for your kind words I will indeed seek further help x

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