[kez09]

My partners Dr put him on a detox while awaiting an app with local turning point service. There is a 6 week wait . The waiting without not alot of support is very hard.

[kez09]

I meant to say my partner suffers with depression and anxiety and for years has made out he drinks because out that. But it’s turns out he gets that because of the drink . It’s so hard

[kez09]

I am so sorry to hear this. I do hope the ambulance service helped. Unfortunately they only except help when they want it. You can’t make them. I thought my partner hadn’t been drinking for a few months and we were getting there but have found out he has been drinking secretly I am gutted. I feel I am a mug for believing things were gonna be different. How is there a way through all the lies. When I don’t believe a work he says ?

[kez09]

Unfortunately I don’t get time I have young children , I work and have all house daily tasks as he is unable.i don’t know how to support him either I thought I was being supportive by letting him do his own thing and keep everything together so he doesn’t have any thing to do . But that doesn’t seem good enough. I found out today that one of family member have been buying him drink. I am so angry with them and can’t even face seeing them as feel I will blow my top with them. I know it’s his choice to drink it but why why would anyone buy it for them!!! I just don’t know what to do. I can’t see a way forward at the mo

[kez09]

I too need the same help. My partner is alcoholic and I work also and have 2 children and am holding everything together for everyone. He is in process of getting support and help but I just can’t seem to find help and support for myself. I feel at breaking point. Just wondering if you can ever get past all the lies and hurt that’s been caused and how you actually move forward. I love him and as in your situation when sober is a complete total different person.

[kez09]

Hi. I am too in a very similar situation. My partner is an alchloic and has hit rock bottom. He has started to get help but unfortunately the wait has been long. I have been looking for support for myself as he seems to be able to get the support but I can’t. I am keep together the family as well as working and doing all normal life things as well as trying to support him although this is hard as I’m not sure what to do to help. He is very down angry and aggiatated and I just feel like I am hitting rock bottom. I am trying to stay strong and keep everything together for everyone but have no support myself. I have family and friends but because they havnt been through it they don’t really know what I’m going through. I feel very alone.

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